I am just going to use this to vent. Probably won't make me feel better in the end but I am mad and just feel like talking it out.
You've all felt that way I am feeling right now.
When you just wish that people would leave well enough alone. It is just one of those situations where I have told those involved that I would take care of things and leave things alone and they don't. And of course it's a family member.
After Katelyn is born we need to settle down and write a will and make sure all our ducks are in a row.
So much hurt and confusion would have been fixed if my mom and dad had all the proper paper work in order. Mom was way better about it but there are always a few loose ends. My dad had nothing in order really and it has caused a lot of hurt. Just telling your family your wishes is not good enough, nor is just writing it down really. Things need to be signed, dated, notarized and all that wonderful stuff. So, if I could encourage you all to take care of one thing in the new year to come...for your family or children's sake...make sure you have a will written and know what will transpire if you should die. For those of you with young children, you may just assume that if something happens to you that they would stay with family. Not necessarily true. Without proper documentation your children will probably end up in the state foster care system.
anyway.........being this far along in my pregnancy I can't change the situation that is about to transpire. I just need to give my feelings of anger and resentment to God. As, Brian keeps saying...it isn't doing any good to be upset. Doesn't change things and I know the stress is not good so I end here and will try to have a good rest of the day.
yes, the larger print is on purpose. That's my "I'm frustarted" type. :) But, silly as it seems... I do feel a little better.